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astonetherapist
Jan 243 min read
Understanding Sexual Desire: Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire
When couples come into my practice, one of the most common challenges they describe is mismatched sexual desire. Maybe one partner wants...
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astonetherapist
Jan 53 min read
Are You Making Deposits or Withdrawals? Understanding Emotional Bank Accounts in Neurodiverse Relationships
Navigating a relationship that involves neurodivergence can sometimes feel like trying to solve a complex puzzle. Emotions significantly...
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astonetherapist
Dec 18, 20243 min read
Navigating Intention, Impact, and Validation in Relationships
In relationships, it’s common to encounter misunderstandings, disagreements, or moments where one partner feels hurt even if that wasn’t...
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astonetherapist
Dec 1, 20244 min read
The Pressure to Change Your Partner: A Relationship Poison
It's likely you have found yourself wishing your partner was just like you and wanted them to change. The wish for our partner to change...
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astonetherapist
Nov 15, 20242 min read
The Difference Between Safety and Security in a Relationship
In relationships, people often seek safety—hoping for a promise that they won’t get hurt. It’s natural to want assurance, to believe that...
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astonetherapist
Oct 28, 20243 min read
Unveiling the Hidden Struggles of Late-Diagnosed Autism
For many individuals, receiving a diagnosis of autism spectrum disorder (ASD) later in life can be both a revelation and a relief. It can...
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astonetherapist
Oct 14, 20245 min read
The Adaptive Child, Wounded Child, and Wise Adult: Understanding Your Inner Selves In Couples Therapy
In couples therapy, we often focus on communication patterns, emotional needs, and relationship dynamics. But underneath these...
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astonetherapist
Sep 24, 20242 min read
Unlocking the Secret to Lasting Love: The Transformative Influence of Personalized Couple Rituals
Navigating the complexities of relationships can sometimes seem very intricate. But what if I told you that there is a hidden gem that...
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astonetherapist
Sep 9, 20242 min read
Understanding and Overcoming Codependency in Relationships
It is not uncommon for individuals to become deeply intertwined and emotionally reliant on each other in intimate relationships. While...
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astonetherapist
Aug 22, 20243 min read
Living with a Highly Sensitive Partner: Nurturing Connection and Balance
Living with a highly sensitive partner can be a beautiful yet intricate dance of emotions, empathy, and understanding. Highly sensitive...
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astonetherapist
Jul 28, 20243 min read
Navigating the Late Diagnosed ADHD
Discovering that you or your partner have Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) later in life can be a revelation, shedding...
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astonetherapist
Jul 7, 20244 min read
Why are some relationships harmonious while others slide into violence and chaos?
You probably noticed some strong family patterns in your life – at times, you may be repeating what your parents did and you may be...
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astonetherapist
Jun 16, 20242 min read
Shame Thrives in Secrecy
Shame is one of the most painful emotions humans can experience. Shame can break up otherwise solid relationships and marriages. This...
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astonetherapist
May 25, 20243 min read
Crack the Code to Your Relationship: Understanding Attachment Styles
Welcome, dear readers, to another look into the world of relationships. Today, we're delving deep into attachment styles, those invisible...
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astonetherapist
May 9, 20242 min read
Exploring the Pros and Cons of Autism Assessment
If you landed on my page you are likely suspecting that you or your partner might be on the spectrum. In recent years, there has been a...
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astonetherapist
Apr 28, 20242 min read
Managing The Couple's Emotional Bank Account
As a couples therapist, I often use the concept of an "emotional bank account" to help my clients understand the importance of building...
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astonetherapist
Apr 3, 20242 min read
How To Connect With Your Avoidant Partner
Many couples struggle with communication and emotional intimacy because of one partner's avoidant behavior. An avoidant partner is...
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astonetherapist
Mar 17, 20244 min read
Sensory Issues In Neurodiverse Couples
Sensory issues are a common challenge that neurodiverse or mixed-neurotype couples face. They arise from the way our brains perceive and...
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astonetherapist
Mar 9, 20241 min read
Trust Can Be Rebuilt
Regaining trust in a relationship can be a long and challenging process, but it is essential for creating a healthy and fulfilling...
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astonetherapist
Mar 2, 20242 min read
Underlying The Need For Control Is Fear
In a healthy relationship, both partners should feel respected, heard, and valued. Control can take different forms (emotional...
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